Stage 9- Deliberate Practice

Stage 9 - Deliberate Practice

ENACTING CHANGE

The role of a creative leader is not to have all the ideas; it’s to create a culture where everyone can have ideas and feel they are valued.”
–Ken Robinson

In the first eight stages of the LIONS program, we focused on inner work—discovering and deconstructing your existing thought processes so you could then rebuild your mental maps. In Stage 9, we now shift into outer work, where you begin to embody those meaningful changes.

Enacting change can be one of the most difficult stages of the transformation process because of the way our brains work. Once we’ve learned a new behaviour—like learning to drive a car—the brain transfers that behaviour from our working memory to our long-term memory, freeing up the working memory to take on new learning. 

Thus, the behaviours that we’ve done for a long time get stored in our subconscious, so that we can execute them without expending a lot of mental effort. That’s why it’s easy for you to drive your car, for example, without even really thinking about it anymore. “Driving a car” is now stored in your long-term memory. 

When you learn something new, however, it creates hard work for the brain because it now has to construct new connections between neurons. As you practise a new habit or behaviour, you will initially feel a temptation to go back to doing things the old way, because it is so much easier and more comfortable for you. 

That’s why, during Stage 9, you’ll engage with a variety of role-play techniques, so you can consistently practise your new behaviours until they become stored in your subconscious. 

Once your learning becomes cemented in your long-term memory, your new behaviours will feel natural and instinctive, and you will achieve real and lasting change in your habits.

INFLUENCE ROLE PLAY

Experience how you feel as you use your influence skills, noticing what is working and what still needs a bit of adjusting.

VULNERABILITY ROLE PLAY

Role-play a range of scenarios in which you embrace your shadow and open your heart.

PRESENCE ROLE PLAY

Practise embodying your presence and controlling your energetic vibrations.

“I want to know if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.”

–Oriah

Outcomes

How this stage will support your growth and self-development:

  1. Make your behavioural changes lasting by accessing the brain’s powerful neuroplasticity.
  2. Incorporate what you’ve learned in Stage 1–8 until it becomes natural, instinctive behaviour.
  3. Continue to identify any areas where you would benefit from further practise.

Let’s Begin

This is where the real adventure begins! I’d love to hear from you.

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"Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything."
-George Bernard Shaw

The LIONS program is a unique and holistic approach to leadership. In the program you’ll learn how to utilise tools, strategies, and mindsets to reinvent yourself and become the extraordinary leader you were meant to be.

Book your free 30-minute strategy call with me to learn how the LIONS program can help you.

What to Expect

In Stage 9, you’ll take part in a variety of different role-play scenarios, which may include one or more of the following:

  1. Interactions between you and Tammy, both during and after the session.
  2. Interactions between you and your circle of influence.
  3. Interactions between you and your ecosystems, in both your home and workplace.
  4. Interactions with a mentor or expert who has achieved excellence in the areas you’re working on.

Overview: DELIBERATE PRACTICE

The habits and behaviours you learned about in the first eight stages of the LIONS program now need to become firmly rooted in your daily actions. 

In order to make these new behaviours feel natural, you need to practice them consistently over time. The good news is that our brains are designed to create new wiring, and we can solidify that wiring when we put learning into practice and repeat new behaviours over and over again. 

However, it’s important to remember that laying down new wiring doesn’t get rid of our old wiring. Think of an old two-lane bridge across a river. When a new four-lane bridge is built next to it, the old one is often left in place. So how do you convince yourself to use the new bridge rather than old one, which you have become comfortable using over many years? You have to practice driving over the new bridge over and over, until you feel utterly at ease with the new route. Once you cement your new route into your long-term memory, whenever you approach the bridge, you’ll automatically opt for the newer one. 

“The best way of succesfully acting a part is to be it.”

–Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

YOUR NEW BRIDGE

In the early stages of learning to “drive over a new bridge,” you will most likely encounter significant internal resistance. This is natural, since your brain is trying to conserve energy by doing things the old way instead of the new way. However, with focused attention and mindful practice, you can push past this initial resistance and create new habits. The key is to practise your new behaviours not just once or twice, but many times, until they become ingrained in your brain. 

Increased practice encourages new neurons to connect and creates neuroplasticity in the brain. Essentially, you are solidifying the new road maps that will allow you to reach your desired destination. 

Much of the work in this stage will focus on noticing where the gaps exist between your commitment and your actions. Through deliberate practice, we will close those gaps and help you embody the changes you aspired to at the beginning of the program. 

DELIBERATE PRACTICE

In Stage 9 of the LIONS Program, you’ll enter Step 6 of the Neural Rewiring Process, the step where you learn to operate anew.

In many ways, Stage 9 represents the most difficult stage in the program. Although many people aspire to change their habits, according to the Journal of Clinical Psychology, more than half fail to make changes that last more than six months. The reason most people fail to meaningfully change behaviour is because they lack the right structures to support them in their transformation. 

In Stage 9, we’ll provide you with the structures you need to cement your new behaviours into lasting habits. The key to making this change lies in deliberate practice—performing new behaviours so frequently and consistently that they become second nature. Through a series of role-playing exercises, you’ll learn how it feels to embody these new behaviours, and you’ll receive feedback from me on how to fine-tune your new ways of being. 

This part of the neural rewiring process requires commitment, consistency, and patience. Practising behaviours that are unfamiliar to us can often be difficult and frustrating, which is why coaching is so important in this crucial stage. 

In our session together, I’ll provide guidance, encouragement, and accountability as you work to cement your new habits through practice.

Let's Begin

Now the enrichment starts. Let’s dive into the first element for this stage, beginning with
Element 9.1: Influence Role Play.

“You are not a drop in the ocean,
you are the entire ocean in a drop”

– 13thcentury Persian poet Rumi